The Cautious Way to Dip Your Toe Into the Dating Pool

If you're like most people new to Zillove, you want to ensure that online dating works —and more importantly, works for you — before you decide to subscribe. That's why you'll want to know about Icebreakers.

Icebreakers allow you to connect with someone you want to meet without needing to subscribe to Zillove.

The process is simple:

When you find a profile that intrigues you, click the "Send an Icebreaker" button and select one of the pre-written Icebreaker messages. We'll send it along with your profile snapshot to the person whose profile you've chosen.

To make your Icebreaker effective, you'll want to have at least one photo in your profile. Why? Well, remember when you were a kid, how it was fun to reach around the person standing beside you and tap them on the shoulder? Of course, they looked around to see who it was. And of course, no one was there. You may have gotten a laugh out of their frustration back then, but it isn't a good way to make a first impression now.

Receiving an Icebreaker

The person receiving your Icebreaker can choose to respond with another Icebreaker or, if they're a subscriber, send an email to your mailing box. Of course, they can also choose to ignore

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Send an Icebreaker

Your Icebreaker, either because they make it a rule not to respond to Icebreakers, or because they think it's a waste of time to reply to non-subscribers, or they aren't interested. Just as with offline dating, rejection is a part of the game.

Here's how to

If the person responds to your Icebreaker, you'll need to subscribe to begin an email.

Learn to handle rejection.

Send an Icebreaker!

Flirt for free! Great things can arise from little gestures. You can choose a message and we'll send it along with your profile.Your profile made me smile.

Let the person you are looking for find you! You can just create a profile, so you can get started now.