5-Step Action Plan for Single Women Over 35
I met many women who spoke to me, acting under the assumption that they are at a dating disadvantage because of their age. They tell me how frustrated they are trying to date in the "over 35" to 45 years age group.
I just wanted to share something with you. They could not be more wrong. The biggest problem these available women have is not their age but their mindset. I would assume that there are tons of potential mates out there for them to meet.
Here are five essential steps for meeting more single men if you are a lady between 35 and 45
If you believe it, then it's true.
The world is what you make it to be for you. Whether you think you can, or that you can't, you are usually right." I have discovered that you can meet great singles anywhere, including online, at any age. It's all about having an abundance mindset. Many people listen to their friends or the chatter in their minds, telling them all the obstacles that stand in their way as middle-aged women. Often, this notion of difficulty stems from other single friends.
I don't listen to friends like this, because I find out that many singles have attitudes that are just ridiculous. They tend to buy into the negative rather than the positive. It`s part of human nature that people will manifest the things on which they focus. If women focus on disappointment, scarcity, and failure in their dating life, then that's what they will experience. I have found that you can always find someone who will agree with you when you are looking for confirmation about something negative, because most people tend to be pessimistic. Most people love to commiserate, and many enjoy having others commiserate with them. The first step is to change your mindset.
About you in general
Charity begins at home, so give yourself a gentle wake-up call. Maybe allow you to take a closer look at your life. If you have had trouble meeting men, ask yourself if you've done enough on your part to meet them.
Please remember that your perfect person is not just going to show up at your doorstep one day with flowers and a bottle of wine in hand and take the initiative. Ask yourself Have I done enough. Have you networked as much as you can? Have you joined Zillove and written an excellent profile that reflects the real you, and started contacting some single men online? Have you explored the events and activities available in your area?
Do your research.
Zillove publishes and provides information on many upcoming events. Take the time to research and discover what events are happening in your area. Select activities that interest you. Don't go to events or classes that you have no personal interest in just because you think there might be men there. You'll have more fun and be more successful at meeting people when you're enjoying your life and creating positive energy. At the same time, though, be open to lots of possibilities.
Try finding out about happy hours for people in their 40s. Consider speed dating events (Date me posting) Zillove has. Just subscribe to enable you to post on our speed dating. Have lunch in areas with hospitals so you can meet doctors. Go where lawyers congregate at lunchtime or during happy hour. Have you thought about visiting car dealerships? Many of the high-end ones have parties. There are also fundraising events and networking events available for you to explore. Think outside the box and get researching.
Make a list.
Zillove challenges you to do something new now and put together a list. Find at least 10 places you can go or 10 things you can do in your town and in other places near you, other than what zillove suggested above. One of the single women I spoke to wished to find a doctor, so I suggested that she go to the hospital for lunch every day, as she wanted to meet a doctor. Sure enough, after two and a half months, she did meet a doctor. It's all about pursuing what you want and taking the steps to get it.
A simple solution requires that you take action!
The only thing left to do is to get yourself out of the house and start meeting people. Life is in the field. Life is about enjoying the moment. Nothing happens for those who sit and wait. Challenge yourself to take action every day. You won't believe what is waiting out there for you!
