6 Ways to Impress Her
So, you've finally landed the big date, and you've paved the way for honest, sincere, and genuine communication. This is it. This is the woman you've been wanting to take out for six months. This is the woman you think will be by your side on the road to becoming a boyfriend. You don't want to screw it up. You want to impress her so much that she wants a second date, a third date — and much more — with you.
What I'm about to give you are six easy things you can and/or should do to impress a woman on a date. As you will see. None of these six things involves picking out the right food or the right restaurant.
Show your creativity.
What do you know about this woman you want to impress? What are her likes and dislikes? To plan a great date, it needs to be something that truly interests her. Many men opt for the traditional "take her out to dinner" approach and hope for the best. That's not the right way to do it. Please think outside the dinner box, and show her you thought about her when you planned this date.
Have a plan.
Nothing turns a woman off more than when you call her and ask her what she wants to do on a date, as a man. You need to be a leader. Women like strong. Confident men. Women like men who make a plan. It's about knowing what she likes. It's called listening. If you want her. You will know what at least some of those things are because you've been listening to what she has to say.
Activity dates are great.
When planning your date, consider activities that allow you to challenge each other and have fun. Go bowling. Play miniature golf. Go to one of those pottery places where you can paint a mug. Take your dogs for a walk. Go get some ice cream. Take a walk around a lake. Do something casual and fun. And no pressure. The problem with going out to dinner is that it can feel very high-pressure. You are sitting across from each other with nothing to do but watch each other chew and swap resumes. Do something more fun than that — the more child-like the activity, the better. Activity dates provide you with numerous easy conversation topics.
Have no expectations.
Even though you're excited to be out with this woman, you don't know who she is yet. So why set high expectations? When you have expectations. You have pressure to make things work. By remaining present on the date and not thinking ahead to other dates. You'll have more fun. This gives the date a much better chance of being successful. The reason why so many dates go south is that you're thinking ahead during the date, in reality. However, all a woman wants is for you to be present and engaged in the moment with her. She wants the real you, not the "playing it safe" version of you.
Don't worry about the goodnight kiss.
After a reasonable first date, guys feel like they have to "seal it with a kiss." Guys will start thinking about the goodnight kiss the entire last part of the date. It's like it's the 4th quarter of a football game and they're planning their comeback. When what they should be doing is just enjoying the play-by-play. When you walk her to her car, give her a hug or a little kiss on the cheek or lips. Women love foreplay. And they love to be left wondering about that passionate kiss they will have with you.
Follow up with a second date.
If you had a good time, and she did too. Then why leave her in suspended animation? Ask her out for a second date at the end of the first date. Ask her to do something you both discussed enjoying on your first date. That way, when she goes home and does the play-by-play with her friends. She's going to say that you're one of the few guys who didn't leave her wondering what she did right or wrong on that first date. You will stand out among all the "other guys" she's met.
Ultimately, remember that women often enjoy romantic comedies. They are always looking for that serendipitous moment where a man knows things about her and takes her to her favorite coffee shop without even having to ask her which one that is. You want to be the leader, not the follower. You want to lead her on a romantic journey.
