He left his wife, to marry me

The PE teacher was handsome - tall, broad-shouldered, with a pale face and black curls. His unbuttoned Adidas suit and a massive gold chain around his neck were visible. And since Indian movies were often shown at that time, everyone compared him to someone from the Kapoor dynasty. Only they were darker-skinned. The type - the father with long hair.Just as well-fed, indolent, and an easy-going man.

It sounds like I’ve been waiting for this moment—now that he’s left his wife, I expect him to reach out and propose, or at least move forward seriously.

 Before anything else, here are a few critical questions to consider:

 Is he emotionally and legally free?

Just because he left doesn’t mean he’s ready.

Divorce or separation often brings emotional baggage.

Is he prepared for a new commitment?

 Have his actions matched his words?

Has he shown consistency over time—choosing you openly, respecting you, and being honest?

 What do you want, honestly?

Do you want to marry him because you love and trust him, or because it feels like a victory or validation?

 Will trust exist between you?

Relationships that begin in the shadows often carry long shadows.

Are you both willing to do the work to build trust, healing, and a future?

Would you like help writing a response to him, if or when he calls? Or are you still deciding how you feel about all this?