The first date feels like an interrogation.

The man is outraged: the first date feels like an interrogation. How do modern girls behave on the first date? A man in his 30s registered on a dating site because everyone around him keeps saying it's time to think about starting a family, time to get married, and so on. Of course, today, a dating site is not the best place for that, but still... So, he started going on dates after meeting and a very short correspondence. And the man is very dissatisfied. He says that most of the time, these dates are not like dates at all. In just half an hour, he manages to tell the girl everything about himself. More precisely, everything about his financial situation. And he admitted that he feels like he’s under interrogation. The girls are not interested in his hobbies. In the past, people were interested in musical preferences, education, hobbies, and their favorite books. Now, for girls, this doesn't matter. What's important is something else. Here’s what they asked the man most often:- What do you do for a living?- Is your salary enough? - Arriving? -Are you looking for a raise or career growth?- Do you live with your parents or independently?- Is your apartment yours or rented?

Do you have your car? - Are you planning to buy one? - Where do you like to go on vacation? And this man's answers to the questions are as follows: He works in IT, his salary is enough, he doesn't plan for career growth, hasn't traveled anywhere in a long time, at most picnics, barbecues in the countryside, fishing a couple of times a year, and visiting friends' dachas for a bath, that's his entire rest; he lives separately from his parents, but his apartment is rented, he doesn't have a car because he doesn't see the need for one yet. And for some reason, girls don't particularly like all this. How come, today everyone should have a car, and they should already be buying their apartment, since he's already a 'grown man', it’s time to acquire his real estate. And he jokes: 'Once I get married, then my wife and I will buy together,' and the girls just change; further communication is no longer interesting to them. And this irritates the man. He says: 'What difference does it make to them whether I have a car and an apartment? Why aren’t they interested in my hobbies and interests? After all, we have to communicate further, possibly live together. It’s important what I’m into

And what is a person really like, with whom you plan to build a relationship? Maybe he is just a fool who needs nothing in life apart from work and money." But it seems that the latter is what interests women the most – money, as well as the presence of a car, an apartment, and the ability to travel with a man to different countries. Although I am a woman, I will say that a man needs to "take his legs in his hands" and quickly run away from such a girl who is primarily interested in his wallet on the first date. Nothing good awaits him with her. Otherwise, it feels like some kind of financial report on the first date or an interrogation, where they would also ask for income statements. None of this is about sincerity and surely not about love.