Why do women dress up for work, but at home they appear unkempt

Why do women dress up for work, but at home they appear unkempt and in old clothes in front of their husbands? I don’t know where it’s coming from, but men have the impression that Eastern women hide all their beauty and conceal their charms from strangers, wearing closed clothing in public, while at home they dress up in front of their husbands, and only the husband sees his wife in all her beauty. It seems men do not watch series. Or perhaps they secretly peeked when, in the early 2000s, women were passionately watching the series "Clone"? By the way, that’s where we first started learning about how Eastern beauties live and how they hide their bodies and even faces from prying eyes. Only the husband is allowed to see everything, and only for him does the wife put on makeup and dress up.

And so, at some point, our men suddenly began to wonder, Who are our women getting dressed up for when they go to work? For the boss, for male colleagues, or other women? Why must one leave the house in full beauty, and upon returning home, on the contrary, one can look plain and quite unattractive?  Indeed, that's true. At home, a woman dresses comfortably, and this is her... comfortable clothing often seems quite unremarkable. Why is that? Well, in many organizations today, there exists such a concept as a dress code. And believe me, men, not all women are happy about it. Many wouldn’t mind going to the office in jeans, sneakers, and a comfortable T-shirt. But they can't. That's how it is. They have to comply. At home, a woman wears clothes that she doesn’t mind getting stained with oil, flour, or sauce while cooking dinner, clothes that she’s not afraid to tear while cleaning.

And, by the way, many women say that at home they don’t dress like slobs, they don’t wear old torn clothes; they wear everyday home outfits or just comfortable shorts and t-shirts, quite decent. This is ordinary, comfortable clothing. But even this is not to men’s liking. At work, who do they see? Women in tight skirts, beautiful blouses, figure-hugging dresses, in tights and heels. And at home, when a wife puts on home clothes, even if they’re new and clean, they recall women in heels and with styling. But it won't be like a woman cooking dinner or cleaning the toilet in the same outfit she wears to work. Sometimes the husband says to his wife, seeing her dressed up before leaving the house: 'What a beautiful blouse, a skirt with a slit. Why don't you walk around like that in front of me?' The wife is surprised, imagining how she would fry cutlets or clean the bathtub in that expensive blouse.

 A woman will do her makeup before going out to some event, and the husband is surprised again: 'But you don't do your makeup like that for me.' He is astonished, and it's hard for him to explain the difference between evening and daytime makeup, and that the skin needs to rest from cosmetics. And where? Of course, at home, you can relax and not worry about mascara running or lipstick smudging. At home, a person relaxes and rests. Many men, for example, do not like to wear ties and jackets. But at work, many are simply forced to dress that way. And women also want that look more than leggings and a t-shirt.

So? Try to get any man to walk around at home like that. Wear a tie! That's how women want to relax at home. Nobody wears lace panties and silk nightgowns at home all the time, either. There is home wear, although it is very comfortable and cozy, but it is also far from evening outfits. Because home is a place where a person wants to exhale after a workday, relax, shed all that fancy clothing, which, by the way, is often very uncomfortable, and just be themselves and recharge. And if a man wants to see his woman in beautiful outfits more often, he just needs to invite her to restaurants, theaters, and such places more often, where she will be dressed up, just as he wants to see her.

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