What do 60% of all single women want?
"You are a typical woman. You don’t want to get married, you don’t want to live with a man. You will not let a man into your home (you have a child), you will not go to live with a man (you have a child). You will not cook borscht or wash socks. Essentially, you want a lover-escort who will wait for you to have time between your child, work, and hobbies. And during those free hours, he accompanies you somewhere (to movies) and then books a hotel for dates. This is what 60% of all single women want right now." From a comment by an offended man on Pikabu. Back in 2010, I went on vacation and spent a couple of days doing absolutely nothing except browsing forums on the internet. And when I had read all the possible gossip, I came across the now-famous and seemingly already banned ABF for the first time.
My eyes nearly popped out when I saw everything being said there, especially about divorced women. I read it, and it was as if my eyes were opening. Of course, I understood that some specific men were sitting there. But... Since then, the question of divorced women with children has regularly surfaced on the internet. No matter how they were described online, I hope this wave has subsided by now, but the overall concept was like this. Divorced women just pretend to be good because they are very eager to get remarried as soon as possible.
Therefore, they will entice you with flattering words, feed you delicious lunches, provide perfect bed service, and so on. But don’t believe it, it’s just a trap, and in general, it's better not to get involved with RSP (that's what women with children were called). They will deceive you and drain you! 'Beware of divorced women with children, no matter how they lure you!' - such was the motto of thousands of articles on the internet. This concept has not changed significantly over the past 15 years, but now, it seems, changes are brewing. Now, as someone who spends a lot of time online for work, I see that men are puzzled and concerned that they are not being provided with any lunches or top-notch service.
No one wants to. No one is pursuing them, neither on dating sites nor anywhere else. And in general, many divorced women with children are simply not interested! One of these divorced ladies found the time to put this thought into words. She said, men, you are entirely mistaken to be afraid of divorced women with children. At least because we hardly have any time for you. The burdens of raising and providing for the child fall on us alone. We work a lot, and then we take care of our little ones. We just don't have time for you. And I'm talking about 'casual' dates here. It's even more complicated when it comes to cohabitation. There, you also need the child and the future husband to get along… This arrangement doesn’t always come together easily. And that’s if the woman has already recovered after the divorce. Who knows, there can be all sorts of traumas… Many women have confirmed that a woman with children is often not interested in relationships at all. Either there's no energy, or there's no time. Either drop off at kindergarten, or pick up from kindergarten, or attend parent meetings, or buy gifts… So you don't need to be afraid of us – we are not eager for relationships ourselves.
At least until the children grow up, it would seem that this position should have only pleased men. But for some reason, the effect turned out to be the opposite. Now, gentlemen, playfully evading ladies with attachments, were unhappy that these very ladies were not interested in them. And if they were interested, then only in a very light format. They immediately remembered about the borscht cooked by the multicooker, the socks washed by the washing machine, and the shared household that they allegedly always try to avoid... If men used to want ease, asking 'why do I need a woman at home,' now they're curious about why they need a woman out of the house.' That is, in a hotel, for which they have to pay, in a restaurant, where the prices bite, and so on. Hey, where are you, divorced ladies, ready to serve me? This is unacceptable! I still don’t understand what men wanted from divorced women and women in general. For them to enjoy a relationship? Why wouldn't they want a relationship? Why are they dissatisfied with the story of casual meetings and entertainment? Maybe you know?
