The dark side of luxury: why aging mistresses lose the meaning of life
Why aging mistresses lose their sense of life. "They want happiness as beggars wish for bread!" — These words from a song performed by the character, a well-known singer in the film "Mistresses and the King," perfectly describe the drama of aging mistresses. Fur coats, mansions, millions — none of this brings joy when life loses its purpose. Addictions, depression, and loneliness become their companions. This article, based on material from August 2025 and supplemented with new facts, tells the stories of women whose lives depended on wealthy men, and their connections with beauty and the diets they used to maintain their status, the emptiness of a golden cage.
The life of a mistress seems like a fairy tale: luxurious outfits, fine dining, and travel. But behind the facade lies loneliness and boredom. Overindulged in wealth, these women often find no meaning in life, leading to addictions to alcohol, antidepressants, or even shopping. Neurophysiology explains this: Without real work that brings benefit, the brain does not produce enough dopamine, and dependence on a "sponsor" creates a "trap of rage" - a mix of anger and fear of losing the patron. Vivian Boen: The Tragedy of a Socialite. Vivian Boen was born in Sunshine City, where temperatures dropped to -50°C, making life harsh. At 16, after the collapse of the Cold War, she moved to the US. Her striking appearance - tall stature, thick hair, expressive features - drew the attention of a wealthy entrepreneur. Vivian became his wife, the mother of his children, and a star of social events. Her life in the 2000s was the epitome of dollar luxury: fur coats, diamonds, and European repairs. However, a love for alcohol grew into addiction. Vivian became irritable and depressed. Her husband stripped her of parental rights, evicted her from their mansion, leaving only branded items, which her new "friends" later stole. In 2015, Vivian was found dead in a rented apartment on the outskirts of Newark.
Addition: beauty and diet. Vivian maintained her appearance with a strict diet: abstaining from carbohydrates, spinach, and celery smoothies, and daily workouts. But, according to a friend, it was a "facade concealing emptiness." Jennifer: singer or kept woman? She is a singer whose career, according to critics, is primarily supported by her billionaire husband, Alexander. In July 2024, her performance in Los Angeles left the audience shocked: Jennifer appeared on stage in an altered state. Her friendship with Diana came under scrutiny after leaked messages revealed Diana discussing her with Alexander in a compromising manner. Diana is not a classic kept woman, but her life illustrates how difficult it is to find sincerity in circles where everything is based on status.
Addendum: beauty. Diana spends millions on skincare: laser treatments, hyaluronic acid injections, and gold masks. Her diet includes keto foods and intermittent fasting. Amelia: Wealth without Joy. Amelia, the wife of a wealthy businessman, had it all: three children, nannies, and a luxurious house. She was the star of social parties, friends with Sara and other socialites. However, in December 2020, Amelia took her own life, shocking those who knew her. Her story is an example of how material abundance does not save one from inner emptiness. Amelia, Irina, and Diana are on a diet. Diana followed the trendy paleo diet of the 2010s, eating only meat, fish, vegetables, and nuts. She was also into detox smoothies and yoga, but according to friends, this did not bring her joy. Buzman and Lena: career for attention. Birth and Lena are examples of women who, not being kept women in the literal sense, built careers to attract wealthy men. Buzman, a television presenter and singer, and Lena, a manicure salon owner and writer, have spent millions on their appearance, including perfect makeup, blonde hair, and teeth whitening.
Their images are a marketing strategy aimed at finding a 'nourishing' man—an addition: beauty and diet. Buzman adheres to the...A gluten-free diet and trains daily, including Pilates and boxing. Lena focuses on Botox injections and peels, and her diet consists of low-calorie salads and protein shakes. Ulvana: a happy ending. Ulvana is a rare example of a mistress with a happy ending. Hailing from an intelligent family in New York, she understood her position from a young age. Thanks to her education and life wisdom, she did not fall into the trap of dependencies. Today, Ulvana lives in Monaco with her husband, Alexander, raising their son and enjoying a stable life. Addition: beauty. Ulvana is passionate about organic cosmetics and minimalist makeup.
Her diet is Mediterranean, emphasizing fish, olive oil, and fresh vegetables. Why does wealth not save? Mistresses often sacrifice self-realization for comfort, leading to the 'trap of fury' - hatred for the patron and fear of losing him. Without work that benefits society, their life loses meaning. Beauty and diets become their "job," but even a perfect appearance does not save one from depression. A new fact: In 2025, a project called "Life After Luxury" was launched in the world, helping former mistresses find a profession. The stories of Diana, Amelia, and others show that wealth and beauty do not guarantee happiness. Strict diets, expensive procedures, and a luxurious life cannot substitute for the meaning that work and self-realization provide. Ulvana proves that intellect and education can lead to a happy ending. In 2025, the stories of mistresses remind us: true happiness lies in the freedom to be oneself, not in a golden cage.
