A proven way to take revenge on a cheating husband and his mistress
Time, a smile, and money. Calm down and let karma take its course. Time and time again, learning about the stories of abandoned wives and wandering husbands, one concludes that the best revenge is indifference and time. Let me illustrate this thesis with a small example from practice, on how it all started. The husband left for another woman via text message. From friends, the abandoned woman learned that her husband had asked them to keep an eye on her, as he was afraid she might harm herself out of grief. A month later, the divorce and property division documents are in process. He leaves their child, well, almost, their 16-year-old daughter, with her mother, as he naturally has a new, happy life with a 'younger woman.' He is 40, the mistress is 34, and the abandoned woman is 38 years old. The court process unfolds according to the harsh laws of reality, with dirty laundry being aired, mutual accusations, and ongoing hatred. In the end, the abandoned woman ends up with the apartment and minimal alimony, facing a crisis, and exits with a broken heart and determination.
With a broken heart and complete emotional exhaustion, the abandoned woman comes to a psychologist. In a couple of months, she would have to be taken by ambulance to a psychiatrist. Let's thank God for intelligence, especially the intelligence of women. As a result of the work, the abandoned woman decided that she would not seek revenge, but would instead find ways to make herself smile. This could help her climb out of the emotional pit.
From that moment on, the abandoned woman became respectful and kind to her ex-husband and his mistress. This made her proud of herself. The abandoned woman did not ask her ex-husband for help, nor did she remind him about their daughter and financial obligations. Instead, she focused on her work. All this time, she wanted to cry, to lie down without getting out of bed; every day, she performed a feat by not letting sadness cloud her face and tears flood her neighbors. The abandoned woman began to take care of her appearance and health. Soon, people began to say that divorce suited her very well. All of this does not negate the fact that her soul ached just as much. However, the abandoned woman raised her self-esteem.
Her self-esteem has significantly improved her financial situation. Two years later, the abandoned woman is 40 years old, divorced, well-off, and happy. She has no serious relationships with men; she realized that one can be satisfied without that. The abandoned woman lives in a new apartment and vacations twice a year in affordable hotels by the sea. She is sure she wouldn't have achieved half of this if her husband hadn't left for his mistress. The husband lives with his mistress, who is not yet his wife, and her four-year-old daughter.
The daughter of the abandoned woman and her boyfriend (both 18 years old) live with their father; it was their choice. It all turns out to be quite strange. According to the abandoned woman, her ex-husband looks unhappy. By going to his mistress, he wanted to feel young again, but in the end, his life changed not at all. Debts, eternal loans, and accusations of the world’s injustice remain. The abandoned woman admits that her ex-husband had reasons to leave her; she would have left her old self, too. The abandoned woman is not devoid of schadenfreude; she takes pleasure in looking down from above.
To look down on her ex-husband. He deserved it, and she achieved it. Time and the will to live have put everything in its place. The human mind cannot conceive of revenge more sophisticated than what life invents. To remain human and move forward, that is your plan for revenge.
