Where do such wet fantasies like "no bread - eat cakes" come from?
But let's talk about everything in order. Do men have the right to rest, some personal space, and more time for themselves? 100% Yes - just like a woman. But unfortunately, it just so happened that after a woman works a full day, she comes home, takes care of the house, cooks, does homework with the children, and in most cases also prepares her husband for work, irons his shirts, washes, and that's it. Do not forget about the night shift - since everything is in our country, if you don't give it, it will go to the one with outstretched legs. Does a woman want more free time for herself? Of course, he wants it too, but where to get it? Where can a man get free time? The most straightforward answer is to put that very nature on household duties; it's all feminine.
Even the most advanced men also set their natural education to work; someone motivates them to do so. I am tired of working for my uncle. Someone is looking for himself; someone did not find a banal one. And what should a woman do in such a situation? Not somewhere in the future, where a man, inspired by her inspiration, immediately becomes the head of a corporation, but right now, when the payment for electricity has come, when to pay for the kindergarten, when to buy a battery of mashed potatoes? Advice from an intelligent, bearded man in the frame is not to take on additional responsibilities. Apparently, to sit with an expression on your face like Shrek's cat and wait for the universe to bring something to your break. BUT, as a rule, this is a bastard, the universe is in no hurry to throw any goods into its beak! And so, a woman, tired of darning the last cotton panties and borrowing from her neighbors, finds some additional work for herself - say, collecting bouquets of food. The husband immediately denounces all this as nonsense and foolishness. Someone twists it at the temple, and the woman, overcoming all this negativity, whether she wants to or not, has to collect these damn bouquets.
Today I drank. Tails bought. Divorce, of course, is the easiest option. But let's be realistic; it does not always work! There are a vast number of reasons, ranging from public censure that they say you ruined the family, to the idea that the presence of a father in the house is a guarantor of well-being and a peaceful old age, and ending with the unwillingness to leave the child without a father and share the living space. In the end, a man may not be so bad, but just not very good in terms of earnings.
The second option is also very logical; it is to leave the man on the farm and plunge into making money. I don't see anything wrong with this at all - let the one who succeeds earn, but the second partner then helps to run the house - otherwise, why do you need to live together at all? But here, gender roles come into play again. How can a man scrub toilets? And for a woman, this is like a sacred duty and her favorite job. She is given a brush in her hands right in the maternity hospital, along with all the recipes of world cooking. There are also three.
The third option is fabulous. To have more money and free time, a man needs to decide on a job that will give him all this. To retrain, not to sleep at night, and to gain a client base, experience, and all sorts of goodies. To create a reputation and climb up - And now, let it be in a year, in two, but the woman becomes an inspirational fairy, and the man gets a better job and free time for dots. But for some reason, this option does not work for us at all. I wonder why? A woman on maternity leave, with children, manages to find some part-time jobs, but a man... Either our fellow citizens do not have enough ambition, or all the mammoths are extinct, and it is not clear what new targets to look for.
But the main thing in all this: another message that no matter what you do, you will still be guilty! She earns little, is not feminine enough, and you are not so inspiring. You earn money yourself - again, not feminine, and in general, what man wants you. And if your husband earns on his own, you sit on his neck, a freeloader. Uh…You earn money yourself - again, not feminine, and in general, what kind of man will want you? And if your husband earns on his own, you sit on his neck, a freeloader. It's not even two chairs - it's some kind of vicious circle from which there is no way out! Well, the time now is such that gender roles should be left somewhere in the remnants of the past! For some reason, in practice, everything slips into the traditional fun - to blame the woman for everything. So it turns out that we have only RSP and deer around - but a couple of generations ago, they were just normal people... Thank you for the company! I hug you with my wings and wish you well! You're unfeminine, Epoxy Fairy, by the standards of many.
