The wife became ugly. Her husband decided to hint to her about it

The wife became ugly. Her husband decided to hint to her about it. She wisely responded to criticism. The man complained that his wife had been unhappy a few years after the wedding. I completely abandoned myself.

Childbirth and obesity.

Then I didn't lose weight right away. But everything was fine. And the husband, in principle, ignored his wife's extra pounds. At least everything was fine with them. And at night, too. The wife felt that her husband liked everything, both her appearance and her shape. But one day at breakfast, looking through something on his phone, he suddenly said, "Lene, you know, Dostoevsky said that beauty will save the world."

His wife did not understand:

What are you talking about?. Well, now I look at our wedding photos, and I think what a beauty you were, with a thin, cute face, figure, and posture. Well, just candy! This is such beauty, if it were everywhere, then it would be more joyful to live. At first, the wife was offended when she realized that her husband was hinting that she had changed over the years. I went to another room, upset. And then she came back and said:

They also say that beauty requires sacrifices.

So, if only "Do you know what, dear?" They also say that beauty requires sacrifices. So, if only I would sacrifice my day off once a week to spend with the children. I would also clean up and then go with the girls for a massage, to a bathhouse, or a beauty salon. If I could sacrifice my free time in the evenings, I would sometimes go to karaoke or sit in a bar with my friends. Yes, at least in the gym for an hour a couple of times a week, and then your wife would be just a beauty. But no, it's all for you. Since you work a lot and get tired, you need to relax, drink beer with men, and sleep on the weekend.

I don't get tired either.

I have to work hard at work and then do household chores at home. I take care of the children alone. You are Dad, who came in the evening to play with them for an hour and then got tired. And I think, and this is a common situation, when a man does not understand that his woman needs rest, she needs to be distracted, to take care of herself. She should rest a little sometimes, and then. Take care of your beloved family with new strength, inspiration, enthusiasm, and a good mood. With age, the body requires increased care, which takes time (not to mention money).

But men have one extraordinary answer to all this:

Our grandmothers had time for everything, and looked after themselves, and the children, and the house, and did not whine." Yes. But this does not mean that it was easy for them. And they often looked older than their years because of hard work, lack of sleep, and lack of rest, even if they were healthy. But even if we talk about honesty, men also did not whine before that their wife looks bad: the children are well-fed, happy, the house is clean, there is food, the cattle are fed, the garden is plowed, that's all, and there are no hints that the wife has wrinkles or cellulite.

If you want your woman to be beautiful, then help her.

Those men who choke on saliva when looking at someone else's woman are worth a penny. You put on your shoes and boots, and admire them. And most importantly: never compare your woman with others, it is very unpleasant. And if you love her, don't openly criticize her appearance. Most likely, she guesses about her shortcomings and, perhaps, is already taking some measures. Do not offend her.