What should a wife keep secret from her husband?
There are two opinions regarding openness between spouses/couples.
1. If you are close, you can tell each other everything.
2. A woman should have her little secrets from her husband so she remains a mystery to him.
I remember when we were still in school, in the upper grades, one girl openly shared in front of our classmates about things we all kept silent about. She wasn't shy to complain about her stomach pain during her period (there were boys in the company), or about how her underwear was pinching her, and much more personal stuff. We looked at her and thought, how could she talk about such things, especially in front of the boys? Well, we grew up. And adult women are also different. If one shares all her physiological details with men almost from the first date, another is afraid to undress in front of her husband in the light because of cellulite.
By the way, regarding cellulite... Recently, I came across a video where a husband was rubbing cream on his wife's very full and imperfect legs. And in the comments, as always. As always, opinions were divided. Some wrote about how great the husband is, how much he loves his wife, and how he tries to make her legs beautiful. But others, for example, wrote: "Well, can't you rub cream on your legs? Why do you make your husband look at this horror?" Some women are so open with their husbands that they share everything from their past personal lives in great detail, revealing some female secrets. Should there be such trusting relationships between a man and a woman? One older woman mentioned that she always tried to be beautiful for her husband when he returned from work; she never greeted him in a housecoat, nor did she walk around with curlers and a face mask in front of him. She would do all these procedures when he was asleep or not at home. She believed it was unacceptable for him to see her unkempt, messy, and disheveled. The only time it was acceptable was when she was sick, of course, then beauty was not a priority.
And the husband could see her in a terrible state, which she was going through, but she understood that it was temporary. And when she recovered, she tried to get herself back in shape as quickly as possible so that her husband could once again admire his beloved woman. There was never a time when she intentionally put on an old robe, even if it was comfortable, or applied a mask to her face in front of him, knowing he was home. The woman said that men want to see beauty in front of them. Of course, one can choose not to do this, but then it is the woman who will be at fault if he finds a mistress who is always beautiful for him. Moreover, a woman should not tell her husband about her girlfriends, their lives, and reveal their secrets; she shouldn’t reminisce about her exes, let alone compare her man to others. One can think about this, but never utter a single word about it out loud. Someone might say that husbands and wives are very close people, and there should be no secrets between them. And a husband should love his wife, whether she is in an old robe or with face masks.
On the face, and apply anti-cellulite cream on her plump legs. In general, if you love someone, you should love them in any form. It varies, even in small things. One woman, seeing gray hair on herself, will rush to buy hair dye and immediately fix everything without telling her husband. She will be young, not gray, and cheerful for him. And another will say to him, Will start complaining in a bad mood about getting old, hoping for support. Some whine about everything, unloading all their small and generally insignificant troubles that have accumulated over the day on the already tired husband after work. And someone will keep silent, meeting her spouse with a smile. And again, someone will say that sharing everything is what trust is all about. Who else to share with if not with the closest people?
Yes, that’s true. But sometimes you need to think about whether these revelations burden your loved one; maybe some things shouldn’t be spoken about? Yes, I agree that there should be complete trust, and loved ones should also take care of each other. Paying attention to appearance, someone might be sick and not look very well, or someone might gain weight. But I think that a woman should not intentionally undergo any hygienic or body care procedures in front of her man; she should try to ensure that he sees his beloved as beautiful and well-groomed. Similarly, it's not worth talking to him about everything and anything.
